Allison's First Trip to the Beach

I love the beach. Charles does not. Translation: Allison is almost two before she got to experience the beach. I'm not going to lie, it was perfect to wait to take her. She had so much fun and was able to talk with me about the different things she saw! Have I mentioned how much I love this age? Her personality is really starting to bloom and she is starting to  be able to carry on conversations with Charles and I.  

We woke up yesterday and as much as I wanted to lounge around and do nothing, I was itching to get some fun one-on-one time with my love. Plus the weather was decent and I realized we finally live close enough to the ocean to just hop in the car and go, so why the heck not? 

The best part about going to the beach before 10AM, no one else is there! It was so relaxing and fun to chase each other around without having to weave in and out of people or worry about our stuff getting stolen. 

Allison was a little super nervous about the actual water. Towards the end she finally let me hold her, basically upside down, so that she could "wash" her hands, but she wouldn't stand in it or even go near it unless I was holding her. She loved when I held her and kicked the water every where...my legs are still sore. 

Drawing in the sand with her fingers turned out to be her favorite thing. ever. oh and building sand castles! She kept telling me "Sofi" (Sofia the First) and patting her castle! The sea gulls also took up a good chunk of our conversations...the "e-gulls" were pretty fascinating. 

We hope you all had an excellent weekend and an even better week! 

Happy Monday!

DIY|| Jammie Make Over

So I HATE that Allison out grows her clothes so incredibly fast or that the seasons change and the clothes she has still fit her great (with room to grow) but they are just not right for the weather. So I decided to start out by "summer-fying" all of her jammies! This is a super easy project. It took less than 5 minutes and now I don't have to buy new jammies when these already fit! First you're going to start out with your winter jammies. 

Then you're going to fold the sleeves to get an idea of where you're going to cut.

Then CUT! Now you have a short sleeve version of your winter jammies without spending a CENT! 

Next are the pants! Just like the shirt sleeves, fold your pants to the length you want the shorts to be. 

Then cut, and now you've got shorts! 

Ta-da! All done and super easy! I plan on hemming these shirts & shorts but the best thing about knit is you absolutely don't have too! :) Have you ever made over your kiddos clothing to make them last a little longer? 

Small Business Saturday|| Nate & Jake Co.

Today's Small Business Saturday feature is on of one of my favorite small shops, Nate & Jake Co!
For as long as April can remember her mom, Rosalba, has been a seamstress and would even make her clothes when she was little! How cool is that? When April's son was born, she worked with her mom to design and sew items for his nursery and from there they started making clothes for her boys.

Penguin Top

Before long her youngest son out grew her oldest and she had a really hard time finding clothes that fit him properly. Luckily, April's mom was able to adjust his clothes to fit. When April realized she couldn't be the only one with this problem, together with her mom, Nate & Jake Co. was born! Every single piece is designed with her kiddos in mind. April and her mom pick "fabrics that are soft and comfy for everyday wear" because well "kids are always on the move"!

Tribal Trouser

April's biggest piece of advice for those who are interested about starting a small business but don't know where to start is to:
1. Research as much as possible
2. Don't compare yourself to someone else's success, and
3. Stay true to yourself and your values.

Blue & Gold Romper

The next big step for Nate & Jake Co. is to add more items in their shop for boys and to eventually carry husky sizes for toddlers. I have no doubt in my mind that Nate & Jake Co. will one day have customers all over the word and be recognized as a top children's clothing line handcrafted in the USA!

We have purchased three different items from April & her mom and EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. is beautifully made. In honor of our partnership, Nate & Jake Co. is offering one lucky winner a pair of their ADORABLE Tribal Trousers. Seriously guys, these are the cutest, most soft pants I have ever seen! I'm still trying to convince April that she needs to make them in adult sizes. ;) So make sure you enter below!

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This post is sponsored in part by Nate & Jake Co. All thoughts and opinions are my own. Thank you all for supporting the small businesses that make this blog possible!  

You Know You're a Mom When...

You know you're a mom when... 

1. you find squished crackers and granola bar in every nook and cranny of your purse.

2. you forgot what the word privacy means.

3. you've become immune to the 3 P's: poop, pee, & puke.

4. you've mapped out all of the best hiding spots in the house so you can eat a cookie without having to share. 

5. you can belt out the entire Sofia the First theme song!

6. you realize the phrase shouldn't be "sound like a broken record" but instead "sound like a mom". 

7. you Web MD your chest pain symptoms because you're pretty sure this latest bedtime battle has stressed you into heart failure. 

8. you find random stuff (sippy cups, bras, remotes, crayons, etc) in the kitchen drawers.

9. you have to hide the plunger & toilet brush because your toddler decided she needs to carry them around the house like wands. *barf*

10. you think driving by yourself for 15 minutes is a vacation.


How do you know you're a mom?

Small Business Saturday|| Kate & James

Do you know what I love about Instagram? You start looking at a picture of your friend's kid and then next thing you know you've stumbled upon the most adorable little shop and you spend the next 20 minutes browsing their fun and playful designs. You know NOT doing the dishes.

Katie Clark and Jayme Gibbs are the masterminds behind the adorable kids clothing shop, Kate & jAMES. Over the past 20 years Katie and Jayme have shared a love of fashion, design and kids. So when the opportunity presented itself in January 2014 to start a kids clothing line, they jumped right in.  Kate & jAMES officially launched in June 2014 and is based on the combined inspiration of "fun, creativity, adventure, and independence". Because they both love kids (Jayme has two kiddos, Lola and Wyatt, and Katie is currently expecting) they wanted their designs to be playful and fun for kids, but also appealing to adults. They hit the nail on the head with that one! 

Both Katie and Jayme believe their success so far has been largely due to the fact that they took their time creating their own designs and staying true to themselves. With so many small businesses nowadays, it's important to distinguish yourself and they have done that with flying colors. And can we talk about the "Kate & jAMES" logo that is printed on the shoulder area of all of their shirts? I've never seen it before but its extremely creative, and well I LOVE it!

Eight months in and Katie & Jayme are already looking to the future! They have a few fun ideas are in the works for their summer line and I'm SOO excited! I mean how adorable is Allison's "Lemons make Lemonade" tee? I can't wait to see what they come up with next!  

Their ultimate goal is to make every day fun, "we love what we do and we hope to continue to have the support of everyone who loves and wears Kate & jAMES tees!" From my interactions with Katie & Jayme, I can feel the love and passion they have for their company and giving their customers the best experience and products possible. That ladies and gentlemen is what I LOVE about shopping small. Kate & jAMES is offering each of you a 15% discount off of your order! Just use HERITAGE15 at checkout!

"Lemons make Lemonade" shirt is courtesy of Kate & jAMES. All thoughts and opinions are my own. Thank you all for supporting the small businesses that make this blog possible! 

Surviving Mommy Wars

For those of you who have children, I'm sure you've heard the term "Mommy Wars". For those of you who haven't, in a nut shell, it's moms making each other feel bad about their parenting choices. I'm going on record to say, IT IS NOT OK! I recently had someone approach me about how "appalling" it is that I have formula, Johnson & Johnson's, and Gerber baby food on my monthly favorites list. 

While I do believe breast is best, mom's need to remember that not everyone is blessed with the same privileges and that what works for one might not work for another. Because my parenting choices have been attacked I feel it necessary to share with the world a little something about myself. 

When I was 15 years old I was diagnosed with OCD  (scroll down to Violent Intrusive Thoughts). I know people joke about being "OCD" all the time but, it's a serious mental disorder that affects millions of people around the world. Over the years I've gotten to a place where I am able to control it very well with little intervention. I do take medicine though, and did throughout my pregnancy...*GASP*...I also see a psychiatrist once a year. Most times it's like I don't even have it. Modern medicine is a wonderful thing!

As you probably know, postpartum depression is a very real part of life after baby and having a mental disorder on top of that, well let's just say I couldn't handle breastfeeding. I NEEDED the formula so that Charles and my Mom could help me. So yea it's on MY favorite list. I tried pumping exclusively for a week since Allison was having trouble latching, but I was exhausted. Exhaustion exasperates my OCD. I didn't want anything to do with Allison because I was terrified I was going to hurt her. Even though I can distinguish the types of  thoughts I'm having and can control them, the feelings, the fear, and the anxiety, they are all REAL. It sucks. I honestly didn't enjoy the first month of Allison's life, I was miserable and felt like a horrible mother because I didn't feel that overwhelming love that everyone talks about. 

It's been two years and I don't regret my decision not to breastfeed. After about six weeks I was back to 'my normal' and I was enjoying what I had always wanted, being a mom. Allison is such a blessing and I'm so thankful I was chosen to be her mama. Seriously, this kid is the life of my party! :) Life doesn't always go the way we plan or expect but luckily I have an incredible husband and family that has stood by me through it all. Sure I wish that I didn't have OCD so that I could have hopefully missed out on the postpartum depression and breastfed longer AND enjoyed the first few weeks of being a mom, but that's not the hand I was dealt.  

The point is, you have no idea what goes on behind someone else's four walls, so don't you dare criticize or judge their decisions. It's theirs NOT yours. Stop the mommy wars. Please. They are insulting and degrading. Parenting is already hard enough without the condemnation of other moms and dads. 

With that being said, while formula was one of our favorites, please do your research and make the best informed decision for your family. Just because it worked for us, doesn't mean it will work for you. Whether it be formula or breast milk, cloth or disposable, circumcised or not, vaccinated or not, it's YOUR DECISION!